There are children and adults spiritually just as is naturally. You will know that someone is a spiritual baby when the first thing they do when faced with problems is crying. A spiritual adult is ready to learn spiritual things like praying for themselves instead of running after the pastor. Sadly for those who will refuse to learn, there is no man of God that can pray for every individual every day!
You should know that as a child of God that is filled by the Holy Spirit, you can hear God for yourself. The Spirt of God beckons you (guides and leads you) in the right direction. There are nine (9) gifts that operate in the life of every believer; 1 Corinthians 12:8, these gifts are not reserved for a man of God only. In Ephesians 4:11, you will find the five (5) gifts reserved for a man of God.
As a believer, you must know who you really are in Christ because with an unhealthy image, you compete. Your influence is not measured by what you are doing but by what you produce. Did you know? The world is tired of preachers and it is looking for preaching lives. Therefore, in this time, you need a man of God that will challenge your mind!